How to find your person
How to find your own person - one or the other with whom you want to live for many years, wake up every morning, hold hands together and know that…

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Oxytocin causes married men to stay away from temptresses
PROBLEM: As you know, oxytocin, a hormone secreted by the pituitary gland (especially during orgasm and childbirth), affects our behavior. It contributes to the emergence and development of a sense…

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Love and intimate relationships
Studies by ethologists have shown that the characteristics of men's and women's behavior are not unique: many animals have the same differences. Monkey males have better spatial abilities and are…

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So what is love?

What is love?
For centuries, different people have tried to give different answers to this question. But at least there is no practical answer. I have not met for 6 years of studying this issue, so it will be more objective. I noticed only one pattern: creative people fool the meaning of love with artistic images, and pundits, with the help of love, stick out the superiority of the human race over the rest of the animal world. But real love, without rose-colored glasses, handkerchiefs, bows, without evolutionary perfection, without divine foundations, is not said. I even began to think that love is a beautiful myth for the sublime parasitism of one person on another. Continue reading

Love and affection
If people are in a close relationship, then naturally, attachment will naturally arise between them. Attachment, as a habit of intimacy and a desire for intimacy, is the natural basis…

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I do not like those who like me
"I don't like those who like me. And those I like, I don't like me!" - a very common sadness (often female) and a topic for consultation. What is worth…

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