Is it possible to create love without love
Sometimes it works. Who and under what conditions? Marriage of convenience There are interesting observations: if a family is created by decent people who can be grateful, then over time…

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Can love burn all my life?
Can love burn all my life? In short, then: Love can not last forever and in certain periods goes out. Love can burn all my life, but only in rare…

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Scientific way to save love, 100% guarantee
Arthur Aron, an American psychologist, is known not only for 36 questions with which you can fall in love with a stranger and fall in love with him. A real…

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About the conquest of women
Periodically I hear that a woman needs to be conquered (to conquer). Once I almost agreed with this thesis. But, since I felt a trick, I could not take it…

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Do we have a love or a deal?

To the article “How to determine whether it is love or love?” the girl left a comment: “And what to do with self-esteem, if they only use your gifts?” – I answer: “Dear girl, do not be fooled: if you give something, you will be happy if a person uses it. “You are me – I am you. And love has nothing to do with it.”
Love can be different, love can be both a gift, and a bargain, barter. More common transactions, but apparently they are usually presented as a donation. This is a delusion or deception.
Deal – an agreement between business people, when one provides the necessary to the other in exchange for what he needs himself. “You – to me, I – to you”.
We heard sometimes the girls say: “I gave him my love, and he is a villain …”. Is it true – gave? Let’s figure it out together.
Giving, for example, love, cake, care, a bottle of wine – it means a gift, that is, free of charge. I give you, but you owe me nothing. Right?
And if the other is “must,” then this is no longer a gift, but an agreement of barter, an unspoken agreement of barter.
Why unspoken? Because it is so accepted. To think what you give is more pleasant and more romantic. But behind the scenes, man suggests changing. For example, to be honest, when meeting a girl and a guy, the following tacit contract is often discussed … Girl: “I love you (sex), and you give me attention, care, a feeling like a stone wall,” well, you can financing”. The young man, as a rule, agrees to sex, everything else is possible. Often, of course, the opposite happens. The young man offers care, attention, understanding, romance, in the hope of getting … what? That’s right, sex. But, of course, this is not discussed directly. Therefore, there is a two-way, not just an exchange, but also a two-way deception. Out loud, everything seems to be about to give, in fact, to change.
Change is normal. I give you something, in return receive what I need. All people change with something, all trade and business relations are built on this. But why call it – love?
Is love a gift? Does love happen with a capital letter? Yes, it happens, see Love-gift. But such love is not common. Love is basically a rare thing between people …
Note, the transaction does not exclude the gift. We may have a deal at the heart of the relationship, I’m happy to get it from you, but I get it in order to give you more. If the main thing for me is not to receive, but to give, then even with some barter, it is more a gift, not just an exchange and not just a deal.

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They quarrel with you - it means you are needed!
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