emotional balance

Love and intimate relationships
Studies by ethologists have shown that the characteristics of men's and women's behavior are not…

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So what is love?
What is love? For centuries, different people have tried to give different answers to this…

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The power of love: how loved - loved?
How do we understand that this is love, not cheap? How do we define the…

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Can love burn all my life?
Can love burn all my life? In short, then: Love can not last forever and…

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Knight in shining armor

In the heart of every man there lives a hero or a knight in shining armor, most eager to succeed in the field of serving his lady and protecting her. Trust activates this noble part of his nature. He becomes more caring. Without feeling confidence, the man gradually loses his liveliness, energy, and in the end, he completely ceases to show concern.
Imagine a knight in shining armor, who slowly and dejectedly rides his horse through the desert terrain. Suddenly, female cries and sobs reach his ears. The knight instantly comes to life, plunges a spur into the mount, and rushes to the castle visible far in the distance. Plaque, he finds a dragon, trying to polonit the beautiful princess. The knight draws his sword, kills the dragon, and the princess happily thanks the savior. Continue reading

Is it possible to create love without love

Sometimes it works. Who and under what conditions?
Marriage of convenience
There are interesting observations: if a family is created by decent people who can be grateful, then over time their relationship can gradually include elements of romanticism, even if at first there was no love between them. As a result, an established relationship can grow into true love, it happens!
Not everyone can – fall in love. It’s like a talent – someone is deprived of it. Continue reading

How to make up with a girl?

To make peace with a girl and restore a relationship with her, you first need to ask her for forgiveness. Do not know how – learn (for example, at the University of practical psychology), but if you were wrong, you are sorry and ask for forgiveness. If you like a girl, you have more flowers.
At the same time, there are frequent situations when both sides were wrong – you and the girl as well. So, in this case, all the same, we begin by asking for forgiveness, flowers and restoring the relationship. And then – options. If a girl is smart and appreciates you, then after that we discuss her behavior. If a girl is only a girl and does not yet consider it necessary to think, then direct conversation is meaningless. Justice will not be here, it is still inevitable. Earn yourself a different price in the marriage market, become more expensive in the eyes of the girl, and when she really starts to value you, then in case of a quarrel – after a quarrel – you can discuss both your and her behavior. Continue reading

Love, relationships

Red: “Love and Relationship”
“To live with love.” If you loved yourself, people, things, things – what would you feel? How would you behave, how did you look, react, relate? As with the desire of what result would you work at the Distance? For what, for whom would you master the exercises?
“Who is the navel of the earth?” With your attention, make life and other people, not yourself. Listening, immerse yourself in the soul, body and work of the interlocutor, live his life. Get used to looking at everything first of all from the point of view of the person who is right next to you, and only then – from your bell tower. Practice jumping, work into the state of the interlocutor. Continue reading

Love men and women

When people talk about love, they most often mean love between a man and a woman. You can talk about other areas of love – about love for children, for parents, about love for the Motherland or God, but it seems that the love of a man and a woman is the source of a conversation about love in general.
In the literature on love between a man and a woman, they write a lot and beautifully. In philosophical and theological treatises on love they write deeply and sublimely, I mean first of all high, pure love, Love with a capital letter. In ordinary life, love is not often found, but what is found on a high love seems a little. Continue reading